Every week my guitar students file in and, inevitably, at least a few of them won’t make eye contact with me when I ask whether or not they practiced.
I ask them not to feel guilty about it. Instead, I ask them to just be conscious of their daily choices. Every time I feel like playing hooky, I check in with myself to find out why. Here are some helpful questions to ask yourself when you’re not feeling motivated:
- Why don’t I want to practice today?
- Is it because I’m turning the session into a chore?
- How can I make the material more fun?
- Would I perform better with a teacher to help me?
- (If you have a teacher)Would I perform better by teaching myself?
- What if, instead of skipping practice, I practiced for a smaller amount of time?
- Am I afraid to practice? Why?
- Am I trying to take on too much in this session? Can I postpone part of the lesson?
- What am I tempted to do today instead of practicing my art?
- Why is that the more attractive choice?
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